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My Husband May Be Having an Affair. Should I Try and Get Proof?

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This is a question that Ashburn marriage counselors , Chantilly marriage counselors , and marital therapists everywhere may have your answer.  Let’s consider one wife’s dilemma.  After 27 years of marriage, my husband may be having an affair. I used to trust him without reservation. This has changed in the last six months as he has grown increasingly distant. He is not at home like he used to be. He claimed it is because of the demands at work. In the last two months, working full weekdays was not enough. Now, he is working weekends and has even taken a couple of overnight trips. Since our children are grown, I have suggested that I go with him to mix business with pleasure. He quickly shot that idea down. He even has excuses why it is not a good idea for me to take him to the airport. As I have begun to question him more and confront him about the change in his behavior, he becomes defensive and upset with me for not trusting him. I realize that no one likes to be micro-managed. At th